Are you chasing a guy who cancels plans, leaves you on read, and waves from across the room at church? Biblical counselor Cristina Castillo reads this letter live and gives her honest, faith-based perspective on why his behavior is already telling you everything you need to know — and the 3 standards every Christian woman should have before giving her heart away.

I share my story of growing up in a home where emotions were hidden and pain went unacknowledged. I explore how condemnation and self-sufficiency can keep us from God, and how Jesus’ example in Gethsemane shows us how to bring our grief, anger, and buried emotions honestly before Him.